It is like sky diving. Or can my Sun hurt the person. They may cause each other significant pain and strife, but God help any outsider who dares to point it out. Who is whom? I do keep finding myself attracted to people who seem to have a strong primal power under the surface, and I dont really feel connected to Pluto myself (I dont know if thats on purpose or simply because its otherwise weakly aspected in my chart). To make it simple for those of you who are on the same path, Ive rounded up the top 5 placements that indicate a past life marriage. When you say one which you contemplate, do you mean that the person is aware of the abuse tendency and tries to deal with it? You are so welcome, Britt and thanks so much for telling me that you like it. Do you think the way it plays out ties into whatever our attitudes toward Eros/Lilith themes (erotic transformation, primal urges, etc) were to begin with? I am the nessus person and I admit to having some devious tendencies towards anyone with neptune in that position. Thank you F for being here and for taking the time to comment.What do you mean exactly? Romantic Conjunctions in the 12th House If you see any intense conjunctions between the Sun, the Moon, Juno, the South Node, Saturn, Venus, Mars, Lilith, etc. Yes, this is all very true but the charts exist outside of time, too. All this is square my Moon. Please post the charts. Ami, hello. If someone does not want to accept the truth, that is their choice, but I, personally, will not do their chart. The Five Darkest, Sexual Aspects in Synastry. I will try to maintain rock solid boundaries and not get led into any weirdness as nothing is amiss yet. Deja conj ASC may make for victimization as you fo through life, I am not able to do more. This is based on experience and charts, as are all my theories. These aspects or connections have a "mean't to be" feel to them, it's a potent place to look at in synastry. I found your site a short time ago and learned a lot, very descriptive in the analysis, I love it! What are your thoughts? The ex that abused me while I was pregnant had his Nessus conjunct my MC. Hardly. Sydney, you are amazing. I dont want to assume that having Nessus conj BML means Im going to be abusive in sexual relationships. I would put Moon/Pluto first in terms of super connection and passion and Venus/Pluto second. To me, this is always a fundamental place to start. Lol just noticed what you wrote at the end about Mars/Uranus, sorry! I am for the stark, bare truth cuz that is what heals. In order to post comments, please make sure JavaScript and Cookies are enabled, and reload the page. Even with a trine this 8th house effect enhances both the good and the bad ? It can also happen that there are changes in your love life when the Vertex is triggered in your birth chart by some transiting planet or progression. Your email address will not be published. What does this conjunction mean in a synastry? I feel like it helps me. You find them sexually attractive. Is it relevant? Lilith person helps Ceres person find their power and authenticity. Hello, what a great article, thank you. His Amor is in trine and sextile to a few of her inner planets. Do you have any advice for me? Or can both apply? A later relationship was abusive (a psychopath) His Nessus square my Sun YES, your Deja conj his NN will make you his victim, to put it really directly. Youll have to use your judgement here. You can have Mars/Pluto with a fling and not feel a thing in your emotions.We have the same kind of weighting with the conjunction, trine, opposition and square as we did above. I was thinking that maybe one of the lesser factors could be moon/mars contacts? It is really rocking my world right now <3. This was likely a more romantic or sexual relationship instead of something that sustained itself day to day. Thank you, Lo and Welcome IF the chart does not seem right, then I think the time of birth is off. There`s also lot of growth and sweetness and nothing that amounts to abuse. I seem to be one of the rare people doing it lol. Set his time to 12 midnight but TELL me, so I know before I look! What would you say about moon conjunct pluto in a composite chart. lol. Hi Ami, Ive been quietly enjoying your site for years now and am finally reaching out as Im intrigued by your work on nessus/deja and recently entered into a relationship with someone (not romantic) who I discovered has nessus and mars conj my nn exact. orb). We are mesmerized, enchanted, and even obsessed with this person. xxx, This may make Nessus and what it means i.e abuse, something that is a deep subject with you and on one which you contemplate. How do you relate to all the men who have their Pluto there? If an asteroid is conjunct an angle or a planet, placed in a prominent position, or stands out because of some other reason, it can provide an additional layer of insight in chart analysis. My Sun and Mercury sandwich this conjunction by four and three degrees. Thats fatalistic and leaves the image that the entire rest of the charts and people themselves are completely victim to two asteroids that are being portrayed as always playing out when they really do not always do so. Posts: 83From: 8th houseRegistered: Jan 2014, Posts: 50409From: Saturn next to CharmaineRegistered: Apr 2009, Copyright 2000-2015 The opposition would be the same but not as locked in or as intense. He has a strong nessus (conjunct with his sun + true node in cancer ). Thank you again. This can indicate marriage, but it can also indicate a long-term romantic or sexual relationship. Thanks :), Synastry When a person's natal moon forms a conjunction with someone's Eros, or vice versa, this can be a very sexualbut very intenserelationship. -Eros conjunct their personal planets ( Sun,Moon,Venus, Mars etc.). Lilith conjunct Ascendant This aspect can bring intense emotions, profound personal growth, and the potential for both positive and negative experiences. Im curious about that conjunction to my crushs NN, though..do you really think it could mean something? They have lots of soulmate connections in the charts and both make really strong NN conjunctions and squares in synastry. As a result, this aspect can feel like opening a can of worms that literally fly, not crawl, out of the unconscious. How will these aspects play out? Lets hope more info comes out about this connection.:). If you see Moon oppose or square Pluto, dont play with the person. That is my commitment to my readers. Is there any way this could play out in a positive manner or should I watch my back? That being said, the charts WILL play out, imo and ime. Not all people with a prominent Dejanira are victims I disagree.I think they will be until they can truly overcome it with God. with Dejanira conjunct his natal Sun It is real to be neutral. For that reason, I am not for everyone and know this but I seem to be appreciated by people who think like I do. Notify me of follow-up comments by email. I dont mean to, but I think I find issues/hurts of my friends and partners and end up trying to mother them if thats what you meant. They have a very strong sense of "us against the world," and they will fight to protect the boundaries of their relationship at all costs. Yes, that is a good way to put it. I wonder if that would mean that he IS an abuser but couldnt abuse me ?? She has never treated me as less than, and she is extremely giving. Two celestial bodies are in conjunction when they are very close to each other, often in the same sign but never more than 8 degrees apart. Children create their future adult personalities by learning from the adults around them and their interactions, so it makes sense, sadly. The Lilith person brings sexual energy that is literally untamed. Also, I try to be very direct to counter the tendency in many Astrologer not to take a stand. I have more compassion for myself, and I feel validated some ~ not to identify more as a victim. and should I post the picture of the chart (I usually get it from astro.com)? Would the aspects to the venus offset the negativity that the Dejanira implies? Ive only been studying astrology casually for 5 years, so even though I know the basic interpretation of those planets in contact, Id still love to hear it from a pro love your blog! This would take a whole chart reading. It will not heal anyone to tell them that they are wrong when they say that their relationship is healthy and happy even though they have an aspect that you think is destined to be unhealthy. M. % would be more ambient but felt imo Maria dear. Synastry: Sun square Pluto, sun conjunct Amor, sun conjunct psyche, Pluto conjunct moon, Venus square Pluto, (they have Venus square Pluto)natal also, mars sextile Venus, Mars conjunct Sappho and trine Uranus (they have mars square Uranus natal mars) tine Jupiter, Venus conjunct Neptune and sun conjunct Venus and Eros square Pluto, Eros conjunct kaali, Venus conjunct kaali all opposite Nessus!! what do you think about a double-wammy moon sextile pluto and pluto square moon in sinastry? This transit is positive as well as painful, destructive and revelatory. Venus conj Chirondoes love seem to bring pain? Click here for instructions on how to enable JavaScript in your browser. The same with nessus conjunct ASC? I have this aspect with someone Im seeing. Always leaving them in a fog of confusion, along with lies, victim playing and guilt trips. Im pluto and he is the moon. In the rare instance where these two do meet, the results are truly awe inspiring, changing our lives in intense and lasting ways. Partners switch roles? Does this mean anything? I asked if I could post their charts but my friend isnt comfortable with it. Lovely and very filled with passion! The Five Darkest, Sexual Aspects in Synastry There is attraction based on dark forces like rage, pain and abuse. Maybe, the good aspects just out weight this one. We are to take the blueprint that is given and then do what we want with it. I dont do the Draconic. Fortuna Conjunct the Vertex. Asteroids and aspects do not control people. with Dejanira conjunct his natal Saturn, Mars. I have very wide-orbed Eros-Lilith contacts (not conjunctions) in my two last relationships (they are Eros, I'm Lilith), but both relationships were so 8th house-oriented and Plutonian that it's hard to tell where Lilith comes in. Eros wants intense encounters that lead to lasting transformation. That might be how theyre playing out their Nessus-Dejanira, though Im not sure since they also have a lot of mutual Uranus and Pluto contacts to inner planets and both Ascendants. That is why it is so powerful. YES. From the outsider's perspective, Eros and the Ascendant person will seem as if they are living the romantic experience only witnessed in films. I've found that the Eros person has a "crush" on the planet person. However, it's recommended to do an individual birthchart analysis before analyzing the Synastry to see the personal needs and potential for maintaining a healthy relationship. I cant really relate to Nessus at all, though I sometimes think I can feel BML itching under my skin. Wow, Pluto conj the DSC may be looking for partners who have strong primal power and you may not have accessed your own. Sun person helps Lilith person recognize their subconscious gifts and strengths. My eros was conjunct someone's mars and I did feel like whenever he was sexual, it was very erotic. Retro makes one thoughtful, so I do not see it as bad as many do. However, there is a flip side. Moon oppose Pluto and Moon square Pluto could tend to be dark because they are powerful and not with a harmonious flow. About Nessus/BML, I would watch it. My ex has Scorpio Pluto conjunct my scorpio moon, and I have Sagittarius pluto conjunct his sagittarius moon. Hi woman s Dejanira and Juno, ( 445 and 432 Scorp ) both conjunct mans Eros and Chiron, (510 Scorp, 530 Scorp ) and both OPPOSITE mans Nessus (6 Taurus) Saturn conj Mars in Scorpio could produce a kinky kind of thing. BUT my dejanira is conjunct with his sun by one degree and my dejanira is also in the same degree as my AC What does that mean? It makes me feel very crazy. Priapus is likewise called a "minor rustic God" or even "an oversexed gardening God." Lets see. We have no moon aspects will this help? There is also a near-exact conjunction of his north node to my Eros. It exposes our weaknesses and provides us a chance to deal with them constructively. I bet that the son was still the abuser though, even if he was the victim, as a child. How do we honor Lilith in our lives? Lilith cops the craziest projections - that she could cause miscarriages or tried to wreck men's marriages via 'erotic nightmares' and so on. In fact, it is the opposite. I am Sag with rising capricorn and he is Capricorn w/rising Sag. She is deeply alluring and irresistible. What does Nessus and Dejanira mean when conjuncting each other? Maybe also Mars/Uranus? This is a general rule, my Friend. Conjunction, Opposition, Square, and Trine! I remember the first time I discovered how to read a synastry chart; I worked with mine and my boyfriends for about 6 hours. I sense Saggi. Crow Symbolism: Spiritual Meaning Of The Crow, 6 Effective Studying Spells For Exams, Class, & Enhanced Focus, Winter Solstice & Yule: Rituals, Traditions, And Ways To Celebrate. I have moon opposition pluto. Isis Conjunct the Vertex. We are not discussing potential long-term compatibility between the sexes, not the love match-rather, signs of initial sexual attraction and knee-jerk reactions between two people.
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